The Thrill is was Gone
Posted by Brian Thornton on July 15, 2009
I must confess that I have been in a blogging funk ever since the beginning of February. Clarification of convictions when it comes to church and all that that entails (and issues resulting from that clarification of those convictions) will do that to you. Without going into a lot of detail right here, let me just say that our family began visiting another church this past Sunday. After three and a half years at our current local body, we made the extremely tough decision to leave.
Is this the result of spiritual growth? Immaturity? Impatience? Self-centeredness? Arrogance? Pettiness? I guess only time will tell. For now, we are in a new place, meeting new people, and getting used to our (hopefully) new surroundings. My request is that, if we come to your mind, please pray for us. We have departed from familiar people, familiar routines, and from familiar and beloved roles of service. I can only hope and pray that God would be pleased to use us again. The kids were also very anxious and nervous about going somewhere new, but their fears were soon overcome by the reception they received from several kids their own age. What a blessing that was for them! Joshua already had one friend going there and met another new one Sunday, Nikolas was very apprehensive until he discovered the church’s extensive library, and Caleb met some fellow frog-lovers!
Back to the point of this post. There has been much on my mind these past several months, but none of which I thought was appropriate to write about at the time. My blogging has been, well, pretty anemic lately. It’s ok…you can acknowledge that. Not that I had a ton of people coming here to read anything I had to say anyway, but I do want to apologize to those few and faithful for the last several months for my funk. This past Sunday, contemplating our first visit to a new church, I felt a weight, a burden, if you will, lifted from my conscience. And I can only hope that that will translate into a little more substance here on the blog.
Now, to explain what that does not mean. I will not be drawing distinctions between our former church and where we are now attending. But, there may be some issues I address from time to time that I have resisted touching on these last few months. They are important ones for the church universal, and I look forward to seeing what Scripture reveals, and also to what you may have to say about them. Above all, may God truly be glorified in everything we say and do.
So, here’s to the end of my funk…


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Charles E. Whisnant said
My friend on the blog, may I say, I have been where you have. I was in a church for four years, and I left as a result of a lack of joy in the church. Really it was the lack of commitment of the leadership to use us in the ministry of the church.
I was so down on myself, I wanted to quit all this stuff. Blogging, reading, going to church, etc. I was on my last leg, in ministry. After 40 years I was ready to step aside.
I had to get out of the church. Only to get into another church that was little different then the last one.
So, finally, the Lord open the door for me to pastor another church. Now I can get myself a hard time.
I freely write about my experience in these churches.
RFT said
Just prayed for you and your family. May God bless you all. Tough decision you’ve made. Look forward to your return to regular programming.
Scott Autry said
Brian,
Give me a call.
p.s. Hate to see you go. Funny ’cause you and your family have been on my mind lately.
oldbutweary said
Last year, after 12 years at a church, we made the decision to leave. They had tolerated my Calvinism and even let me fill the pulpit and teach Sunday School for years. I found out, though, after being licensed for seven years, that to maintain my lay license I was supposed to have been completing a form each stating my agreement to adhere to the denomination Articles of Faith and Practice in my teaching/preaching. As a matter of conscience, I couldn’t.
It had also been years since I had taken a note in my Bible during a sermon and I was walking out of there way too frequently gritting my teeth at the content of the sermon. It was time to go. We searched and found a little Baptist church with a sharp young Reformed pastor who loves the Puritans. Hard to believe in the wilds of Northern Michigan. My wife is loving this church as well – she’s taking gobs of notes during Sunday School and the sermons as well. Never thought she’d get into church history and teachings on the atonement.
Some will remember you fondly. The Sunday School class I taught usually had about a dozen people in it – six Calvinists and six Arminians/Pelagians. One of the Reformed families had their teenage daughter attend – she graduated high school last month. The class sent me a card after I left thanking me for my efforts and the young girl wrote the comment that meant (and still means) the most to me – she said, “Yours was the only class I’ve ever attended where I actually learned something.”
Blessings as you move on.
Butch said
I will be praying for you and your family. I’m sure you will be in active service soon at your new church. May our great God use your entire family for His glory alone in the coming days.
God bless you abundantly!
Kris Harris said
We will miss you guys immensely! It was such a joy seeing Joshua grow in knowledge throughout the year in Sunday School as well as Rachel the past few years. Thanks for your service and we will see you soon.
SDG Brother!
Kris
Justin Hornsby said
Brian,
I, too, wanted to let you know that we will miss you and your family greatly. Thank you for all the ways you all have served our local body. You have been a great blessing to us. Grace and peace to you.
Justin
Brian Thornton said
Charles, Les and others…
Thank you so much for your encouragement, input and prayers. That means at lot.
Scott, I’ll call you soon.
Butch, thank you for your prayers and blessings. I pray God will us wherever we are.
Kris, thank you for your diligence (and patience) in teaching Joshua. I am sure you have planted seeds that God will sprout in His perfect timing.
Justin, we will miss your family as well. It was a privilege serving with you.
Grace and peace to you all and to yours.
Mike Duckett said
I know it is hard praying for you and yours!!
JackW said
Brian,
I’ll pray for you also, as I know this must be a very difficult decision for you from past discussions that we have had on church covenants.
I recently moved to a church that just started up and is closer to home. I actually had a meeting with both Pastors and received their blessing on the move as it was clear that I was needed at the new church. How often does that happen?
A brick is a brick, the Master will decide where it belongs.
Grace to you,
JackW
Brian Thornton said
Thanks for your comments and input, Jack. It definitely was a tough decision, but one that was necessary, and one that is already proving fruitful.
Grace to you as well.